Pregnant Brides

[pheinbaugh2]

What are your feelings on this?

I was pregnant when I got married. My husband proposed to me a month before we got pregnant. I wanted to wait so people didn't think that was the reason we were getting married. So we waited. And then 6 months later I felt horrible not being married. Doctors appointments were weird too.

[sunshine1]

It happens ~ I don't judge anyone for their decisions.   Some brides are pregnant when they get married but the wedding plans have been in the works before they became pregnant.

I don't think you should feel bad about not getting married first.  You did what was right for you!

[pheinbaugh2]

Thank You. You actually made me fell MUCH better. That has always bothered me. I love my family. And I guess it shouldn't matter to me what peole think of my decicions...


THANK YOU!

[flowerhorn]

I believe there will be gossips around when you are a pregnant bride. Especially when your tummy really show. You can't stop those things. But what is important is how your family and you think. You just have to handle the stress you might experience. 

[luvbunnies42]

I was pregnant when we got married.I wasn't showing and it was right in the 2nd month when we got married.My family knew we  lost the baby a few months before they knew we were planning on getting married but didn't have decisions finalized.There were many factors.No one that I know of family, or friends has made a sny remark or even thought twice of it.The sad part is I got wedding sickness that started on our wedding night.=/ By 3 am I was throwing up and had a migraine so bad. I never got sea sick and didn't then.Then we found out 2 weeks later that we were definitly pregnant.We had an idea but waited intil after the wedding and sure enough.I can get overly stressed and sick from that.We had so many things going on then not just our wedding but family issues and I wasn't sure at first if that was why.

I don't think it's far for everyone to judge a pregnant bride.Just because someone gets pregnant it doesn't mean it was planned that way and thats the reason for the marriage. You know why you got married and thats what matters.