My sister is young and my family didn't show for my wedding or reception. So, the hardest part I had was choosing between my two close friends.One I saw and talked to more often and one I've known since I was 10.
I ended up going with who I talked to, worked with and saw more.However now we no longer talk.

I don't regret choosing her but after I stopped working at my job and chose to stay at home with my daughter.Things changed.She didn't want kids and I don't know if thats part of it or not.But, thats how I chose.