You must be laughing at what I have done for this. My hubby and I went to shop for our engagement rings together. He bought mine and I bought his. How about other couples? I don't hope I am the odd woman out there.
This is what we did too~ well actually we both just made payments on them when we could, so we bought them together.
I don't think it is necessary to do husband/wife gifts. We didn't. We were just so happy to be getting married and celebrating with our friends and family, we didn't think about getting each other a gift.