I agree that a honeymoon is a must. We were lucky. my sister gave us a week at the beach in her condo and my other sister bought us the airline tickets to get there. Our honeymoon didn't cost us much.
We did save ahead for it because we didnt want to have to use any of our wedding money for it.
I guess close relatives can save us tonne of money. With sisters like that, I can start to plan for my second honeymoon!